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在此再转发一下：++++++++++++Go, get married, now! (1) In addition to love, there are responsibilities involved in a marriage. Both the personal and societal responsibilities bonded by a marriage are legal. There are different aspects of pros and cons on the marriage responsibilities. Overall, responsibilities are beneficial to both parties unless one party is extremely rich.(2) If you decide to have child(ren) right after marriage you will soon experience and enjoy another very important aspect of one’s life. One’s life is incomplete without experiencing growing up with his/her child(ren) together. Earlier marriage brings not only an earlier enjoyment of such a very special aspect of life but also a definitely longer one.(3) No love lasts forever. Therefore, it is worth considering to grasp it, use it and convert it (into a marriage) before it is gone. People sometimes say: “marriage is a tomb of love”. The word “tomb” is clearly too pessimistic. An appropriate word should be “conversion”. Marriage can convert one kind/style of love into a different one.(4) Go, get married, now!(2005.05.27)++++++++++++后续讨论中我还提到了婚姻与财务投资的联系：In a broad sense, marriage is very similar to financial investment. It requires both the effort and luck with the best or a good outcome not always guaranteed. It demands long-term patience to see a significant result. It needs to look at the overall portfolio rather than individual fund performance, i.e., individual merits or shortcomings. It also craves for constant nurturing or attention to make necessary adjustments to the overall portfolio. And finally, we come to the major point of this advice: an earlier investment usually brings better or more opportunities. Your reward will be tremendous if you succeed in an earlier investment. Well, you get another or more chances if you are unlucky and failed initially. :P++++++++++++关于婚姻与生活幸福的关系：Mini:不是为了结婚而结婚，而是两个人在一起比一个人更幸福才结婚Me: Mini, I agree with you and, in fact, you will also find that your view is in complete agreement with my view on this issue once you give more thoughts on the meaning of “幸福”. The happiness and the fulfillment of one’s life or the couple’s life cannot always be described abstractly but must be felt and measured by daily activities. If the marriage can help the couple both to realize their goals and dreams they should feel happy. If the marriage can bring the couple new enjoyment of life (say, growing up with their child) they should feel happy again. Of course, there are many more that will bring happiness to you through marriage and you will not be able to know and learn those until you get married.++++++++++++婚姻生活中“情”与“勤”的关系：勤到深处，由勤生情
